以色列与巴勒斯坦儿童在哈马斯10·7袭击三年后如何 coping


2026年10月7日 / 美国东部时间早上6:38 / 哥伦比亚广播公司(CBS)新闻
作者:蒂娜·克劳斯、贝基·佩洛、阿纳斯·扎亚德·法伊哈

哈马斯武装分子对以色列南部发动袭击、造成1200人死亡、251人被劫持为人质,并引发以色列在加沙的战争导致数万名巴勒斯坦人死亡三年后,哥伦比亚广播公司新闻采访了加沙边境两侧的两名青少年,了解他们的生活近况。

“如同某种噩梦”

15岁的罗恩·沙尔吉安表示,在以色列南部长大意味着要学会与恐惧共存。他12岁那年,亲眼目睹哈马斯武装分子乘滑翔伞飞越保护社区的隔离墙。

“那感觉就像一场噩梦,”三年后他对CBS新闻说道,称那个灾难性的日子经历如同幻觉,“如果有人跟我说会发生这种事,我绝不会相信。”

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15岁的罗恩·沙尔吉安于2026年10月初在以色列南部内提夫哈阿萨拉的家中接受CBS新闻采访。CBS新闻 摄

袭击者杀害了他在加沙边境最近的以色列社区内提夫哈阿萨拉的17名邻居。

袭击发生时,他和家人躲进家中的防空洞。
“每当枪声逼近,你都会觉得那就是末日,他们马上就要冲进你家了,”他回忆道。

11个小时后,安全部队前来救援,他的家人才得以脱险,但和成千上万因战争流离失所的以色列人一样,他们没能立刻回家。
10月7日之后,沙尔吉安一家先住在疏散人员酒店,随后搬到特拉维夫,之后又换了一家酒店,接着在沿海城镇加恩亚夫内住了一年半。大约一年多前,他们终于搬回了自己的家。

“搬回来真的很难,”他说,“但我也期盼已久。我真的很想念我的家、我的朋友、我的社区——那是你在其他任何地方都找不到的东西。”

“战争还没有结束”

在加沙边境的另一侧,巴勒斯坦儿童很难找到安全的避难所,自以色列为报复哈马斯袭击发动全面军事攻势以来,情况一直如此。

“很多东西都被毁掉了,”卡泽姆·多克马什对CBS新闻说道。战争爆发时他年仅11岁。

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14岁的卡泽姆·多克马什于2023年10月初在加沙接受CBS新闻采访。CBS新闻 摄

尽管自去年10月停火以来大规模战斗已经结束,但以色列多年来持续对加沙实施每日空袭,这场残酷的战争在三年后仍在造成人员死亡。加沙地带的巴勒斯坦官员表示,自停火正式生效以来,已有超过1400名加沙人丧生。

“他们总说战争会结束,但战争没有结束,反而变得更加艰难,”现年14岁的多克马什说道。

“战前我只是个普通孩子,”他回忆起那段“美好的生活”。

“已经习惯了这样的现实”

在以色列,沙尔吉安表示,他至今仍难以释怀如何看待加沙边境另一侧的民众。

“我不知道那里有没有好人,”他说,“10月7日之前,我以为我们可以实现和平。但从那天起,我内心的某些东西破碎了。”

他正努力向前,过着正常的青少年生活——学吉他、和朋友在海滩闲逛。他告诉CBS新闻,如今席卷中东的大范围冲突有时甚至会让他觉得遥不可及。

“我不觉得我们切身感受到了战争,就好像它发生在其他国家一样,”他说。

每当火箭弹或空袭警报声将他拉回现实,他说和大多数以色列人一样,他会泰然处之。
“因为我们已经习惯了这样的现实,”他说,“所以我们不会大惊小怪。”

但即便这种情况贯穿了他的整个成长过程,他表示每次和家人、朋友听到警报声必须冲向防空洞时,内心仍会受到冲击。
“你的肌肉会紧绷,肾上腺素会飙升,”他说,“我们只是习惯了而已。”

“我的人生被毁了”

对多克马什来说,向前迈进同样艰难。他至今仍无法想象重新开始正常的青少年生活。

“我的人生被毁了,”他说,“我的学校被毁了,很多东西都被毁掉了。”
“我们现在只想如何活下去,”他说。

但他并未放弃梦想。他告诉CBS新闻,他希望成为一名医生,目前已经在加沙的英国国际学校复课——学校的新校舍是在原建筑被以色列空袭摧毁后重建的,他最喜欢的科目是英语。

他带领CBS新闻记者参观了曾经是自家住宅的废墟,渴望着能回到战前的生活。
“我们需要过上好日子,而不是只想着怎么弄到食物和水,”他说,“我们需要上学,需要开心,需要微笑。”

联合国儿童基金会表示,自2023年10月7日以色列发动反攻以来,加沙地带已有超过2.1万名巴勒斯坦儿童被报告死亡。

以色列儿童也有数十人丧生,其中包括在哈马斯最初袭击中遇难的37人。

尽管经历了这一切,两名男孩仍在生活中寻找着能让自己暂时做回孩子的时刻。

塔克·里尔兹对本文亦有贡献。

How Israeli and Palestinian kids are coping 3 years after the Oct. 7 Hamas attacks ignited the Middle East

October 7, 2026 / 6:38 AM EDT / CBS News
By Tina Kraus, Becky Perlow, Anas Zeyad Fteiha

Three years after Hamas militants launched their assault on southern Israel, killing 1,200 people, taking 251 others hostage and triggering Israel’s war in Gaza that has killed tens of thousands of Palestinians, CBS News met two teenagers on both sides of the Gaza border to find out how they are coping.

“Some kind of nightmare”

Ron Shargian, 15, said growing up in southern Israel has meant learning to live with fear. He was 12 when he watched Hamas militants on paragliders soar over a wall meant to protect his community.

“It feels like some kind of nightmare,” he told CBS News three years later, calling the experience on that fateful day surreal, “and something I wouldn’t believe if anyone told me it’s going to happen.”

Ron Shargian, 15, speaks with CBS News at his home in Netiv HaAsara, southern Israel, in early October 2026. CBS News

The attackers killed 17 of his neighbors in Netiv HaAsara, the Israeli community that was closest to the Gaza border.

As the assault unfolded, he and his family locked themselves inside their home’s bomb shelter.

“Every time the gunshots get close to you, you think that that’s the end, that they’re coming to your house now,” he recalled.

His family escaped after 11 hours, when security forces came to the rescue, but like thousands of other Israelis displaced by the war, they couldn’t go back home, at least not right away.

After Oct. 7, Shargian’s family lived in a hotel for evacuees, and then in Tel Aviv, and then in another hotel, and then a year and a half in the coastal town of Gan Yavne. Finally, a little over a year ago, his family returned to their home.

“It was really hard to come back,” he said. “But I also anticipated it very much. I really missed my home, my friends, the community — it’s something that you don’t have anywhere else.”

“War has been not finished”

Across the border in Gaza, safe places have been hard for Palestinian children to find since Israel launched its full-scale military assault in retaliation for the Hamas attack.

“Lots of things has been destroyed for me,” Kazem Doghmash told CBS News. He was 11 when the war started.

Kazem Doghmash, 14, speaks with CBS News in Gaza in early October 2023. CBS News

Israel pummeled Gaza for years with daily airstrikes in a grueling war that, despite a cease-fire in place since last October ending major combat, continues to claim lives three years later. Palestinian officials in Gaza say more than 1,400 people have been killed in Gaza since the cease-fire officially came into effect.

“They say a lot of times that the war will finish, but the war has been not finished, the war has been more difficult,” said Doghmash, who is now 14.

“Before the war, I am just being a kid,” he said, remembering it as “a good life.”

“Used to this reality”

In Israel, Shargian said he struggles with how to think about people on the other side of the Gaza border after everything that happened.

“I don’t know if there are good people there,” he said. “Up until October 7th, I thought that we could make peace. But from that day, something inside me broke.”

He is trying to move forward and lead a normal teenage life — learning the guitar, hanging out with friends at the beach, and he told CBS News the wider conflict now engulfing the Middle East can, at times, even feel distant.

“I don’t think we feel the war so much, like, it’s in other countries,” he said.

When the sound of a rocket or an air raid siren jolts him back to reality, he said like most Israelis, he takes it in his stride.

“Because we’re so used to this reality,” he said. “So, we just don’t make a big deal out of it.”

But even though it has happened throughout his life, he said he still feels it inside, every time he and his family or friends hear an alarm and have to rush for shelter.

“Your muscles get tight and you have an adrenaline rush,” he said. “It’s something we just got used to.”

“My life has been destroyed”

Moving forward has been hard for Doghmash, too. He still can’t think about returning to normal teenage pursuits.

“My life has been destroyed,” he said. “My school has been destroyed, a lot of things have been destroyed for me.”

“We are focusing how we’re going to live,” he said.

But he hasn’t given up on his dreams. He told CBS News he hopes to become a doctor, and he has resumed studying at the British International School in Gaza — in its new location, as the original building was destroyed by Israeli airstrikes — where his favorite subject is English.

As he led CBS News through the rubble of what used to be his family’s home, he longed for anything resembling a return to his life before the war.

“We need to live in a good life, not to just, thinking how we’re gonna get food and the water,” he said. “We’re gonna need to go to school, to go, to be happy and smile.”

The United Nations Children’s Fund says more than 21,000 Palestinian children have been reported killed in Gaza since Oct. 7, 2023, as a result of Israel’s counteroffensive.

Dozens of Israeli children have died, too, including 37 killed in the initial Hamas attacks.

Despite everything they’ve been through, both boys are still finding moments in life to just be kids.

Tucker Reals contributed to this report.

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